Tuesday, May 25, 2010

A Whole Lotta Hugging

At Sunday's brunch, a  friendly acquaintance of mine asked me about a whole overnight session of hugging and cuddling with an escort. I started to tell him that it would be possible to hire someone to do that, but that since he wanted overnight to expect an escort to charge him At Least $250 and that if he found one so inexpensively he would be within his rights to wonder why the escort was going to charge him so little. But then he broke in and clarified - He was wondering if he could be an escort specializing in just doing that. I had to tell him that it would not work. He would be lucky to make his advertising money back and break even. And he'd probably get several clients who would believe that he was offering more, but didn't want to admit it. When they got together with him, they would at least try to preassure him into doing something else with him as well.
Looking back, I know what I should have let him know. Always the way, ain't it?
There are a lot of people who are touch hungry and would do well to find a professional way to get it handled.
It's just not a job for an escort.
And it would do better if they could satisfy themselves with an hour or two long session, or a series of them, rather than overnight.
Many people have a masseur to help them with this problem. There is no reciprocity. But its legal and a lot less expensive. About $65 an hour for a good masseur in Houston.
Or they may have a better solution by hiring a sexual healer. Reciprocal cuddling and discussion. The legality might be in question. And they need one who is trained in that kind of thing. A Body Electric trained Sacred Intimate like myself, for a good example. 
I could cuddle with him after determining why he needs it and setting the intention that this would help him with that root cause.
Or even better, still with intentionality, we could do something called Cooperative Wrestling. I love it. It helps me a lot more than just cuddling when I am being helped by another SI. And it can still be done with our swimsuits on, if necessary for some reason. But it's a bit complicated to explain at the end of this long a note. 
More soon.

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